You be the judge ... (hint: The answer is obvious - and quite easy - and has nothing to do with 'force-of-arms').
Here is the post that asks the question: http://snarla.wordpress.com/2010/08/29/if-they-hate-us-why-havent-they-killed-us-yet/
After reading some of the comments on the post I anticipate answers that may come to mind, and give the answer to the largely rhetorical question posed above.
[A] They don't hate us and they certainly are not trying to kill us.
[B] The reason [A] is true is that almost all of them live in such a state of poverty that they have much, much, much more to worry about than hating America.
[C] Just like in the 'Good Old US of A' some among us, in hopes of switching attention from their own shortcomings, like to throw up FUD-Lies-Bull-Stuff about the other side.
[D] "Love thy neighbor as thyself."
... This messages is true whether or not you embrace the word 'love' ... Because the converse is also true ...
[E] "If you hate your neighbor you hate yourself."
... In other words, you have no choices about this ... it is built into your very being.